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Sunday, July 5, 2015
Wednesday, June 24, 2015
Snapshot Storytelling - Volume 2: Watercolor Shapes
Monday, June 22, 2015
Ditching the Suburbs for An Inspired Adventure
Yup! This is for real!
My husband and I have decided to sell everything we own to buy a trailer and travel around the United States for a few years.
It's been an extraordinary aspiration. The idea didn't sound real at first, but something kept telling us it could be a reality. When the concept first came up, we joked about it. But each time it came up, it seemed more feasible. Each time we discussed it, the idea seemed to benefit our family. Somewhere along the line, it felt like a spiritual prompting. Now, it is the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about before I go to sleep.
My husband and I have decided to sell everything we own to buy a trailer and travel around the United States for a few years.
It's been an extraordinary aspiration. The idea didn't sound real at first, but something kept telling us it could be a reality. When the concept first came up, we joked about it. But each time it came up, it seemed more feasible. Each time we discussed it, the idea seemed to benefit our family. Somewhere along the line, it felt like a spiritual prompting. Now, it is the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about before I go to sleep.
We've looked around at several types of RVs and trailers, but when we stepped inside an Airstream, it was love at first sight! In this photo we are trailer browsing with the family (No, we do not own this Airstream...yet). But look at how big the trailer looks next to my tiny pigtailed Dylan!
We had fun just hanging out with the guys at the dealership and talking Airstream. Haha.
In the midst of some research, I came across this adorable My Travels Map by Children Inspire Design. It comes with star stickers to place on the map. The banner says "Where Our Adventures Take Us." How fitting! ;) This shop believes in encouraging global responsibility and instilling a love for the earth in young children. I love the philosophy and the products! I just purchased this map and I'm so excited to put it up in our trailer to accompany our journey! The girls enjoy pointing out places they would like to visit.
While perusing the website, I also picked up three of these adorable Explorer Journals (one for each of my babies). My Marley is a natural born explorer, so she couldn't wait to go outside and start scribbling in her journal about all the things she observed.
Marley can't wait to see the world, meet people, and travel. She is more excited than any of us about the big trailer adventure. She talks about it literally every day. When I handed the Explorer Journal to her, the first thing she said was, "This can be for the Airstream momma!"
Monday, June 15, 2015
Snapshot Storytelling - Volume 1: Banana Cake
Once upon a time, not long ago,
Two playful sisters, sought to learn and grow.
Heads filled with intrigue, radiating with glee.
It's the little things they treasure, just wait and see...
Two playful sisters, sought to learn and grow.
Heads filled with intrigue, radiating with glee.
It's the little things they treasure, just wait and see...
THE END.
BANANA CAKE RECIPE
Preheat oven 350 degrees.
Melt 1 cup butter in a saucepan. Add 1 cup hot water. Mash 2 very ripe bananas and add to butter and hot water.
Mixing with a whisk, add:
2 Cups sugar
2 Cups flour
2 tsp. baking powder
½ cup sour cream
2 eggs
1 tsp. vanilla
1 tsp. baking soda
Butter the bottom of a pan and dust with flour.
Add cake mixture and bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutes, or until toothpick comes out clean
Remove from oven and let it cool, top with frosting when cool.
Whipped Cream Cheese Frosting
16oz cream cheese, room temperature
1 ½ cup powdered sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla
1 cup heavy cream, cold.
Beat the cheese, sugar and vanilla until smooth and fluffy. In a separate bowl, beat the heavy cream to nearly stiff peaks, then fold the whipped cream into the cheese mixture and stir until combined. Do not over stir. Frost cake when cooled!
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
Getting Crafty at Snack Time
Here is a perfect example of planting the seed of creativity and letting it grow. ---
As per our usual daily routine, the baby went down for nap and the girls sat down for a snack. Cheese crackers were the snack of choice. As they crunched on their crackers, Marley started a series of curiosity questions.
"Why are the crackers square?"
"Why are they orange?"
"How do they make them?"
♫"How do they maaaake these crackerrrrs?"♫ (And Marley sang this question to the tune of "That's How You Know"...fans of the movie Enchanted will know why this is hilarious) ;)
I LOVE when my kids ask questions! It's a wonderful sign of enthusiasm to learn. I try to answer them to the best of my ability, but we often have to research online to find the answers. Researching makes up a big part of our homeschooling.
Then she asked "Why is there a hole in the middle of these crackers?" All of the sudden she lit up and said, "Mommy, I have a great idea!" Lets get some string and make cracker necklaces. Um, brilliant! How could I argue with this eureka moment she was having? Haha. Done!
I brought out the fishline and scissors and the girls had a lot of fun making cheese cracker jewelry together.
Then, as always, after the activity was over Marley sat down at the table and wrote about it in her Learning Journal.
I am so grateful to witness these moments and to see my children's thoughts flourish. I hope they always feel empowered to express their ideas and feel supported in their creativity.
FYI, this is the best video we found to watch about how cheese crackers are made:
- How It's Made: Sandwich Crackers
And here is an interesting video about crackers that has a more scientific research approach:
- Crackers by Foodsky: The Science of Food and Drink
I am so grateful to witness these moments and to see my children's thoughts flourish. I hope they always feel empowered to express their ideas and feel supported in their creativity.
FYI, this is the best video we found to watch about how cheese crackers are made:
- How It's Made: Sandwich Crackers
And here is an interesting video about crackers that has a more scientific research approach:
- Crackers by Foodsky: The Science of Food and Drink
Saturday, May 30, 2015
~ To The Mom Who Thinks She Can't Homeschool ~
This is a message to the mom who thinks she can't homeschool...
No, not the mom that has a negative opinion about homeschooling. Maybe this opinion includes "lack of socialization" or "homeschooled kids are weird." She is entitled to her opinion. ;)
No, not the mom who has specific circumstances in her life that prevents her from homeschooling, such as work, child custody issues, or medical problems. She is doing the best she can in her current situation. XOXO
No, not the mom who prefers not to homeschool. She has looked at the options and made a decision for her children that she is confident about. That is awesome and wonderful!
I'm talking to the mom who says things like, "I could never do that..."
- I'm not patient enough.
- I'm not educated enough.
- I'm not creative enough.
In my experience, these are the things I hear the most! I have met so many moms who say "I would love to homeschool BUT..." and then one of those three reasons related to inadequacy. Rubbish. This breaks my heart! Because guess what?...YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH.
Here are some important things those self-doubting moms should remember:
1) Mothers are educators by nature.
Somewhere along the line, moms started becoming convinced they were not qualified to educate their own children. How did this happen? We are mothers. Mothers are incredible women who suddenly have amazing abilities to protect and provide for their family. A mother's purpose is to raise her children. What does it mean to raise a child?---To educate. Think about that.
2) Moms are just as qualified, if not more qualified than the best teachers out there.
The biggest thing parents look for in a good teacher is for the teacher to care about their students. As the mom, you've got that covered. ;) You love your children more than anyone ever could. You know them better than anyone. And you want the best for them. The rest is just finding educational resources, which is easy thanks to the internet. Trust me, teachers get the same information that you have access to.
3) If you are patient enough to be their mom, you are patient enough to be their teacher.
For some reason, some moms think that sending the kids off to school is absolutely necessary to keep their sanity. Myth busted! Nowhere does it say that having the kids in school will solve your frustration problems. It doesn't. As human beings on this earth we all experience hard days and we often find ourselves on the brink of insanity. Especially moms! It's a tough job, but you can do it. I have found that the hardest things in life are the most rewarding.
4) Creativity is a muscle. You can exercise it and become a creative rockstar.
I am proof that this is true. Before I had kids, I had never thought of homeschooling. And I never considered myself a creative person. But once I started researching homeschool and the options (which are mind-blowing), I started thinking more and more "outside the box." I saw ideas and methods that other moms have utilized and I started borrowing them. I probably have yet to come up with an original idea, haha. But sharing ideas and piecing together different types of curriculum has become much easier for me. It's been a lot of work, but I love it now and my kids are having a blast with the ideas I find for us.
5) You are enough! As a mother, God has blessed you with abilities beyond your understanding. Trust your instincts and trust in Him.
I'm sure it isn't a coincidence that almost every homeschooling mom I've met has a strong faith in God. On social media, one of the biggest responses I see to homeschool dilemmas is "Pray." Those of us who choose to homeschool know that homeschooling is hard and that the best thing we can do is seek guidance from God. It helps. I promise. And I promise you are enough. Don't let anyone (including yourself) convince you that you are not adequate as a mother. You are.
I don't think public school is a bad choice. And I definitely don't think that homeschool is the universal answer. I aim to empower and inspire the moms who want to homeschool, but think they can't. If you are one of these moms, contact me! I want you to know you are not alone. I would be happy to give you advice on the subject and make you aware of your options. God bless! xoxo
No, not the mom that has a negative opinion about homeschooling. Maybe this opinion includes "lack of socialization" or "homeschooled kids are weird." She is entitled to her opinion. ;)
No, not the mom who has specific circumstances in her life that prevents her from homeschooling, such as work, child custody issues, or medical problems. She is doing the best she can in her current situation. XOXO
No, not the mom who prefers not to homeschool. She has looked at the options and made a decision for her children that she is confident about. That is awesome and wonderful!
I'm talking to the mom who says things like, "I could never do that..."
- I'm not patient enough.
- I'm not educated enough.
- I'm not creative enough.
In my experience, these are the things I hear the most! I have met so many moms who say "I would love to homeschool BUT..." and then one of those three reasons related to inadequacy. Rubbish. This breaks my heart! Because guess what?...YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH.
Here are some important things those self-doubting moms should remember:
1) Mothers are educators by nature.
Somewhere along the line, moms started becoming convinced they were not qualified to educate their own children. How did this happen? We are mothers. Mothers are incredible women who suddenly have amazing abilities to protect and provide for their family. A mother's purpose is to raise her children. What does it mean to raise a child?---To educate. Think about that.
2) Moms are just as qualified, if not more qualified than the best teachers out there.
The biggest thing parents look for in a good teacher is for the teacher to care about their students. As the mom, you've got that covered. ;) You love your children more than anyone ever could. You know them better than anyone. And you want the best for them. The rest is just finding educational resources, which is easy thanks to the internet. Trust me, teachers get the same information that you have access to.
3) If you are patient enough to be their mom, you are patient enough to be their teacher.
For some reason, some moms think that sending the kids off to school is absolutely necessary to keep their sanity. Myth busted! Nowhere does it say that having the kids in school will solve your frustration problems. It doesn't. As human beings on this earth we all experience hard days and we often find ourselves on the brink of insanity. Especially moms! It's a tough job, but you can do it. I have found that the hardest things in life are the most rewarding.
4) Creativity is a muscle. You can exercise it and become a creative rockstar.
I am proof that this is true. Before I had kids, I had never thought of homeschooling. And I never considered myself a creative person. But once I started researching homeschool and the options (which are mind-blowing), I started thinking more and more "outside the box." I saw ideas and methods that other moms have utilized and I started borrowing them. I probably have yet to come up with an original idea, haha. But sharing ideas and piecing together different types of curriculum has become much easier for me. It's been a lot of work, but I love it now and my kids are having a blast with the ideas I find for us.
5) You are enough! As a mother, God has blessed you with abilities beyond your understanding. Trust your instincts and trust in Him.
I'm sure it isn't a coincidence that almost every homeschooling mom I've met has a strong faith in God. On social media, one of the biggest responses I see to homeschool dilemmas is "Pray." Those of us who choose to homeschool know that homeschooling is hard and that the best thing we can do is seek guidance from God. It helps. I promise. And I promise you are enough. Don't let anyone (including yourself) convince you that you are not adequate as a mother. You are.
I don't think public school is a bad choice. And I definitely don't think that homeschool is the universal answer. I aim to empower and inspire the moms who want to homeschool, but think they can't. If you are one of these moms, contact me! I want you to know you are not alone. I would be happy to give you advice on the subject and make you aware of your options. God bless! xoxo
Wednesday, May 20, 2015
Stroller Etiquette (10 Tips for Operating a Stroller at Disneyland)
I've said it time and time again... "People should be required to have a license to drive a stroller." ;)
I am a Disneyland passholder, so I am often caught up in crowds of people with small children in strollers. And I am one of those people. I take all three of my kids (all under the age of 6) to Disneyland by myself. I rock the double stroller and baby carrier. I always get comments like, "Wow, you are brave!" and "All three by yourself?!" Yup. I love Disneyland and we have an amazing time together. Even my husband can be spotted at Disneyland with all three of our kids. Hahaha!
And trust me, it is a lot better than having them cooped up in the house and letting them make a mess, where I need to constantly clean up after them. Disneyland is a beautiful and fun place to let them run and play and get their energy out. They sleep like angels at the end of the day too!
HOWEVER, the stroller madness at Disneyland or any other crowded place can be frustrating. I often see people that do not know how to properly drive a stroller and are unaware of stroller etiquette. If everyone had an understanding of how to safely drive a stroller, we could prevent accidents, injuries, frustration, and unpleasant memories. So I decided to go over the stroller basics as a friendly reminder to my fellow parents. This is my logic: It is just like driving a car...
1) Do Not Fill Over Maximum Capacity
California Vehicle Code 24002 states "It is unlawful to operate any vehicle or combination of vehicles which is in an unsafe condition, or which is not safely loaded, and which presents an immediate safety hazard." Similarly, a stroller should only be packed to a safe capacity. Some strollers I've observed have giant heavy bags attached to the handle bars which swing back and forth amongst the crowds. I myself have been plowed down by some of those strollers and wonder, "What just happened? And why is my arm throbbing with immense pain?" Eeek! Please be aware that there will be people and children walking near your stroller. Try not to pack it like the family mule. ;)
2) Stay To The Right
Yes, just like while driving, stay to the right. The opposite flow of traffic should be kept on your left side. Whenever I see someone heading in the opposite direction coming toward me, I begin to veer my stroller to the right. It is a natural reaction. If they cut in front of me to pass on my right, I am thrown for a loop, literally. This usually causes anxiety, accidents, and chaos. There are times when I assume the person is from a country where they drive on the opposite side of the road. That would explain it! Haha.
Sometimes Disneyland Cast Members will be out directing traffic during a parade or some other attraction and they are almost always directing the crowds to stay to their right. But honestly, we are intelligent capable adults that can always follow that logic without being micromanaged 100% of the time. Right? :)
3) Stay A Safe Distance From The Person In Front Of You (Eyes On The Road)
Anyone ever been rammed right in the heels or ankles with a stroller? Yeah, me too. It hurts! And it only took me getting hit once to make me realize I would never want to do that to someone else. Don't get me wrong; I have done it, and I felt so bad. It is an innocent accident; no one actually sets out to run over other people...I hope. And it is so easy to get distracted, especially at Disneyland. We are constantly looking around us. But while driving a stroller, it is important to maintain eyesight on your path. I do my best to remain a safe distance from anyone in front of me. Just like a car, it is wise to remain another stroller length from the person in front of you.
4) Follow The Flow Of Traffic
My husband is an offender of this one. He likes to play Speed Racer and weave in and out of the crowds. I have tried to remind him that it isn't a good idea and probably unsafe. When he sees an empty road in front of him, he smiles and takes off with the kids in the stroller as fast as he can go. The kids love it and I can't object since there is no one anywhere near us. But when stuck in a crowd, it is courteous to follow the flow. Assess the speed of the people and strollers around you and adjust to remain at an average and safe speed. Not too fast and not too slow.
5) Pull Over For A Rest Stop
This is my biggest pet peeve! When I am happily moving along down a path in a crowd of people and all of the sudden, without any warning...the group in front of me comes to a STOP in their tracks! They just stand there: adjusting kids, looking at a map, making decisions about where to go or eat, etc etc. I'm there thinking, "Um, hello? I just skidded to a halt about an inch behind your ankles and now I'm trapped behind you until you decide to continue along your way." All the while the rest of the crowds are walking past us. This happens at least once every time I go to Disneyland. Why?? It just doesn't make sense to me. Crowded place, people constantly moving, and you just stop in the middle of the road? Do people do that while driving? No, I don't think so. Just pull over to the side. Do your thing and then pull back out into the crowds when you are ready to proceed on your way. It's easy, I promise.
6) Yield To Pedestrians
Very rarely am I the "pedestrian" (or person without a stroller) at Disneyland, but I need to speak on their behalf. People driving strollers may not want to admit this, but the "pedestrians" are far less cumbersome then strollers. They are compact, faster, and more agile. When I see a "pedestrian" trying to get around me, I slow down and let them go where they need to go. They can get in places where I can't go and they will be out of my way quicker than a stroller. I see no reason to be aggressive and try to keep my place in a crowd when I know that the "pedestrian" will be hundreds of feet in front of me in seconds. Let them continue on their way and avoid confrontations.
7) Utilize Designated Parking Spaces
I can't speak for other theme parks, but I know that Disneyland has designated stroller parking for almost all of their attractions. When you are ready to park your stroller, take a quick look around or ask a Cast Member about stroller parking. They do a great job of accommodating the thousands of strollers sitting around Disneyland, without being a nuisance to the crowds walking through the park. If you park your stroller in an area that is not designated for parking, you may find your stroller to be gone. No no, not stolen! Cast Members are trained to move strollers to the designated parking areas in order to maintain flow of traffic and keep the strollers from being hazards. So it is wise to park your stroller yourself where it is supposed to be.
8) Strollers Going Straight Have The Right of Way
Helpful reminder for when you are about to collide with another stroller. If you are making a lane change or a change in direction, look around and make sure the crossing is clear. Strollers who are proceeding in a straight path should have the right of way. I'm not insinuating that there could be a lawsuit if you don't yield (crazier things have happened I guess, haha)... it is just a nice way to maintain order and peace amongst the crowds.
And in addition...don't play Chicken! When you are about to experience a head on collision with another stroller, don't be like my husband and assess the size and weight of your stroller and figure the single stroller will yield to the big bad double stroller (LOL)...don't say to your kids, "Hey, think we can take them?"...don't try to be the aggressor and test out who will swerve first. Sounds like fun, but really...not a good idea. ;)
9) Apologize When You Incur A Fender Bender
Accidents happen. They happen every day and all day at Disneyland. But when they do, people are generally very nice when they are acknowledged and receive an apology. An awkward situation or confrontation can easily be avoided/ diffused with a friendly smile and apology. I have said "I'm sorry" so many times, even when I felt the situation was not my fault. I don't consider myself to have a doormat personality, but basically I am apologizing for the circumstances or for the miscommunication. It is much easier to go about your day when someone has apologized, even if it needs to be you.
10) In General, Be Aware And Considerate Of Others Around You
- That rude employee that gave you attitude may be going through a divorce and child custody issues.
- That disrespectful teenager that cursed in front of your children may have been abused as a child.
- That grumpy lady that yelled at you for bumping into her may have recently lost her sister to cancer.
Anger and judgement is not the way to go. Take a deep breath and carry on.
Disneyland is the "Happiest Place On Earth," but each of us are responsible for maintaining the happiness there. We need to embark on our family adventures with a positive attitude and with respect for our fellow human beings. We need to keep in mind that we are all hoping to create enjoyable experiences and happy memories. Let's do this together! I know we can. :)
I am a Disneyland passholder, so I am often caught up in crowds of people with small children in strollers. And I am one of those people. I take all three of my kids (all under the age of 6) to Disneyland by myself. I rock the double stroller and baby carrier. I always get comments like, "Wow, you are brave!" and "All three by yourself?!" Yup. I love Disneyland and we have an amazing time together. Even my husband can be spotted at Disneyland with all three of our kids. Hahaha!And trust me, it is a lot better than having them cooped up in the house and letting them make a mess, where I need to constantly clean up after them. Disneyland is a beautiful and fun place to let them run and play and get their energy out. They sleep like angels at the end of the day too!
HOWEVER, the stroller madness at Disneyland or any other crowded place can be frustrating. I often see people that do not know how to properly drive a stroller and are unaware of stroller etiquette. If everyone had an understanding of how to safely drive a stroller, we could prevent accidents, injuries, frustration, and unpleasant memories. So I decided to go over the stroller basics as a friendly reminder to my fellow parents. This is my logic: It is just like driving a car...
California Vehicle Code 24002 states "It is unlawful to operate any vehicle or combination of vehicles which is in an unsafe condition, or which is not safely loaded, and which presents an immediate safety hazard." Similarly, a stroller should only be packed to a safe capacity. Some strollers I've observed have giant heavy bags attached to the handle bars which swing back and forth amongst the crowds. I myself have been plowed down by some of those strollers and wonder, "What just happened? And why is my arm throbbing with immense pain?" Eeek! Please be aware that there will be people and children walking near your stroller. Try not to pack it like the family mule. ;)
2) Stay To The Right
Yes, just like while driving, stay to the right. The opposite flow of traffic should be kept on your left side. Whenever I see someone heading in the opposite direction coming toward me, I begin to veer my stroller to the right. It is a natural reaction. If they cut in front of me to pass on my right, I am thrown for a loop, literally. This usually causes anxiety, accidents, and chaos. There are times when I assume the person is from a country where they drive on the opposite side of the road. That would explain it! Haha.
Sometimes Disneyland Cast Members will be out directing traffic during a parade or some other attraction and they are almost always directing the crowds to stay to their right. But honestly, we are intelligent capable adults that can always follow that logic without being micromanaged 100% of the time. Right? :)
3) Stay A Safe Distance From The Person In Front Of You (Eyes On The Road)
Anyone ever been rammed right in the heels or ankles with a stroller? Yeah, me too. It hurts! And it only took me getting hit once to make me realize I would never want to do that to someone else. Don't get me wrong; I have done it, and I felt so bad. It is an innocent accident; no one actually sets out to run over other people...I hope. And it is so easy to get distracted, especially at Disneyland. We are constantly looking around us. But while driving a stroller, it is important to maintain eyesight on your path. I do my best to remain a safe distance from anyone in front of me. Just like a car, it is wise to remain another stroller length from the person in front of you.
4) Follow The Flow Of Traffic
My husband is an offender of this one. He likes to play Speed Racer and weave in and out of the crowds. I have tried to remind him that it isn't a good idea and probably unsafe. When he sees an empty road in front of him, he smiles and takes off with the kids in the stroller as fast as he can go. The kids love it and I can't object since there is no one anywhere near us. But when stuck in a crowd, it is courteous to follow the flow. Assess the speed of the people and strollers around you and adjust to remain at an average and safe speed. Not too fast and not too slow.
5) Pull Over For A Rest Stop
This is my biggest pet peeve! When I am happily moving along down a path in a crowd of people and all of the sudden, without any warning...the group in front of me comes to a STOP in their tracks! They just stand there: adjusting kids, looking at a map, making decisions about where to go or eat, etc etc. I'm there thinking, "Um, hello? I just skidded to a halt about an inch behind your ankles and now I'm trapped behind you until you decide to continue along your way." All the while the rest of the crowds are walking past us. This happens at least once every time I go to Disneyland. Why?? It just doesn't make sense to me. Crowded place, people constantly moving, and you just stop in the middle of the road? Do people do that while driving? No, I don't think so. Just pull over to the side. Do your thing and then pull back out into the crowds when you are ready to proceed on your way. It's easy, I promise.
6) Yield To Pedestrians
Very rarely am I the "pedestrian" (or person without a stroller) at Disneyland, but I need to speak on their behalf. People driving strollers may not want to admit this, but the "pedestrians" are far less cumbersome then strollers. They are compact, faster, and more agile. When I see a "pedestrian" trying to get around me, I slow down and let them go where they need to go. They can get in places where I can't go and they will be out of my way quicker than a stroller. I see no reason to be aggressive and try to keep my place in a crowd when I know that the "pedestrian" will be hundreds of feet in front of me in seconds. Let them continue on their way and avoid confrontations. 7) Utilize Designated Parking Spaces
I can't speak for other theme parks, but I know that Disneyland has designated stroller parking for almost all of their attractions. When you are ready to park your stroller, take a quick look around or ask a Cast Member about stroller parking. They do a great job of accommodating the thousands of strollers sitting around Disneyland, without being a nuisance to the crowds walking through the park. If you park your stroller in an area that is not designated for parking, you may find your stroller to be gone. No no, not stolen! Cast Members are trained to move strollers to the designated parking areas in order to maintain flow of traffic and keep the strollers from being hazards. So it is wise to park your stroller yourself where it is supposed to be.
8) Strollers Going Straight Have The Right of Way
Helpful reminder for when you are about to collide with another stroller. If you are making a lane change or a change in direction, look around and make sure the crossing is clear. Strollers who are proceeding in a straight path should have the right of way. I'm not insinuating that there could be a lawsuit if you don't yield (crazier things have happened I guess, haha)... it is just a nice way to maintain order and peace amongst the crowds.
And in addition...don't play Chicken! When you are about to experience a head on collision with another stroller, don't be like my husband and assess the size and weight of your stroller and figure the single stroller will yield to the big bad double stroller (LOL)...don't say to your kids, "Hey, think we can take them?"...don't try to be the aggressor and test out who will swerve first. Sounds like fun, but really...not a good idea. ;)
9) Apologize When You Incur A Fender Bender
Accidents happen. They happen every day and all day at Disneyland. But when they do, people are generally very nice when they are acknowledged and receive an apology. An awkward situation or confrontation can easily be avoided/ diffused with a friendly smile and apology. I have said "I'm sorry" so many times, even when I felt the situation was not my fault. I don't consider myself to have a doormat personality, but basically I am apologizing for the circumstances or for the miscommunication. It is much easier to go about your day when someone has apologized, even if it needs to be you.
10) In General, Be Aware And Considerate Of Others Around You
I want to leave a few of my thoughts on respect, consideration, and empathy. Disneyland is always pretty crowded and it is easy to step on each others toes there...figuratively and literally. When you are out there in the world of heavy strollers and giant diaper bags and screaming kids and cranky parents, remember that we are all in this together. We are all human beings. We are all children of God and brothers and sisters on this Earth.
We need to be mindful of others and their individual circumstances. - That rude employee that gave you attitude may be going through a divorce and child custody issues.
- That disrespectful teenager that cursed in front of your children may have been abused as a child.
- That grumpy lady that yelled at you for bumping into her may have recently lost her sister to cancer.
Anger and judgement is not the way to go. Take a deep breath and carry on.
Disneyland is the "Happiest Place On Earth," but each of us are responsible for maintaining the happiness there. We need to embark on our family adventures with a positive attitude and with respect for our fellow human beings. We need to keep in mind that we are all hoping to create enjoyable experiences and happy memories. Let's do this together! I know we can. :)
"We believed in our idea - a family park where parents and children could have fun- together."
- Walt Disney
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